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Old 12-15-2008, 11:12 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by funchy View Post
A more helpful approach instead of playing PUA is to work on why some people are having problems meeting and having the relationships they want with the opposite sex. Why the hesitation in talking to others?
Well he does address these underlying issues too - it's not all gimmicks and pick-up lines you know. In fact, I'd say he spends more time focusing on developing basic life skills like building social courage and such than he does on specific seduction techniques.

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Instead of teaching people to become actors and play a fabricated role, I'd be much more interested in discussing how we can help the real guy. As a woman, in my opinion, we have a whole lot more respect for a guy who is sincere versus the wannabe-player.
Haha no doubt, that's why I stopped following this PUA stuff. I'm not a player so I don't pretend to be. But at the same time, there are some very useful techniques that he explains, like recognizing subtle signals (subtle to a guy like me anyway ) like when a girl mirrors your body language/posture or when she gives you strong eye contact.
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