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Originally Posted by Lauxa  On the "rummaging for clothes" thing... you could suggest to him to set out his clothes the night before so he won't be so rushed in the morning. Can't make him do it, but maybe he'd see a benefit.
Also, is there any time that you could set aside for talk? Maybe during dinner or over late-night cocktails or for a little while before you go to bed? When he is on the computer, absorbed in something else, is not the time for deep and meaningful conversation, but I think you know this. 
I also want to hear what he is good at, what he brings to the relationship that you appreciate. Does he maintain the cars? Mow the yard? Fix the toilet? Make you laugh? Keep up with the news? List as many things as you can. |
I did a gentle suggestion last week about organising clothes the night before.. and he's off work today, so I think he'll probably sort them all out..
The good things my man brings to me are loyalty, laughs, good conversation, very interesting conversation that I cant have with others.. however.. usually this is only when he is particularly interested in the topic.. I'd like to get him to open his ears for some things such as talking about my ideas about spirituality etc.. I'd like to know what he thinks too... but all he seems to want to talk about is aliens, Nibiru, ancient Babalonion civilisations, civilisations in the centre of the earth, government conspiracy stuff. If it's not that, it's dark underworld/criminal type things he's interesting in reading about or talking about. That being said.. he brings a wealth of knowledge on these topics because he has been researching for years.
He brings a lot of love to our home.. and still after 10 years, we have a physical passion that sparks like fireworks..
We are so in-sync that he often says what I am about to say, and vice versa.. we love similar music.. but still have some different tastes as well.. we enjoy watching similar sports like skateboarding, surfing and all that stuff.. we talk a lot about art and we are both very creative in many ways..
he's a typical Taurus.. he WILL NOT do something he doesnt want to do.. and he changes very little..
I'm almost a typical virgo... I'm not always the neat freak.. but I tend to drift into a nag mode... but as I'm aware of it, I have it under a lot more control these days.
He's a great DJ! He is very talented and knows how to throw an awesome party with a smile on every single face!
Wanna see a photo of us... here you go:
I've got a wig on in fancy dress.. but he's a-la naturelle! hehe
