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TonyToneTone · 12-14-2008, 10:33 PM

Tony: I get SO many questions from men about relationship advice. As you are Bas “El Guapo” Rutten (El Guapo means the handsome in Spanish), what would you recommend to our male readers so that they can have success with women?

Rutten: Make sure you are funny, can be serious, then if you can kick some ass on top of that you are set. They need to feel secure and they want to have also fun. If you don’t have these qualities then I hope you have a whole lot of money, because that works too, it’s a different kind of “security”, not because you kick ass, but financially. The problem with that is that you will never know if they like you for YOU or for your money. But if they sign a prenup, I say they love you. That ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ they say “Oh, if you really love me then you wouldn’t let me sign a prenup”, is nuts, I say, “If YOU really love me then you sign a prenup because then I have the 100% truth that you are not after my money. If they don’t, my advice? Do NOT marry them.

By the way, I met my wife when I had a 400 sf apartment (the bed was in the kitchen) and ZERO money, so I know why she is with me, and why is she with me? Because I am funny, can be serious and kick some ass! Hahaha, this is too funny! And ANOTHER thing, El Guapo in Argentina means the guy with “Big balls”, is that cool or what? Good looking guys who are boring are only good for a night, the same as guys use the “cute dumb ones”, if you can’t have a decent conversation with them, it gets boring really fast, not a problem for a short amount of time, but not the “I wanna marry you type”.

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TonyToneTone Family Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,040	Former UFC Heavyweight Champ Bas Rutten on Success with Women Tony: I get SO many questions from men about relationship advice. As you are Bas “El Guapo” Rutten (El Guapo means the handsome in Spanish), what would you recommend to our male readers so that they can have success with women? Rutten: Make sure you are funny, can be serious, then if you can kick some ass on top of that you are set. They need to feel secure and they want to have also fun. If you don’t have these qualities then I hope you have a whole lot of money, because that works too, it’s a different kind of “security”, not because you kick ass, but financially. The problem with that is that you will never know if they like you for YOU or for your money. But if they sign a prenup, I say they love you. That ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ they say “Oh, if you really love me then you wouldn’t let me sign a prenup”, is nuts, I say, “If YOU really love me then you sign a prenup because then I have the 100% truth that you are not after my money. If they don’t, my advice? Do NOT marry them. By the way, I met my wife when I had a 400 sf apartment (the bed was in the kitchen) and ZERO money, so I know why she is with me, and why is she with me? Because I am funny, can be serious and kick some ass! Hahaha, this is too funny! And ANOTHER thing, El Guapo in Argentina means the guy with “Big balls”, is that cool or what? Good looking guys who are boring are only good for a night, the same as guys use the “cute dumb ones”, if you can’t have a decent conversation with them, it gets boring really fast, not a problem for a short amount of time, but not the “I wanna marry you type”.