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Originally Posted by Tom_Chambers  Once you start telling lies, however small, or trying to ignore people, you start building a psychological barrier between yourself and other people. The bigger this wall gets, the harder it is to relate to other people and the more work you put into maintaining this wall. |
Tom, I like your "wall"/"barrier" analogy. Would you mind expanding on the dynamics of this phenomenon a bit more?
I'd like to eliminate the cognitive dissonance I experience and maximize my integrity. Thanks in advance
- Tom