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Originally Posted by RRR  It doesn't sound like you have many guy friends and you don't seem to be trying very hard to keep them around. One lack of a proper greeting is enough to send you into never trying for him again. 2 of your guy friends are only your friends because of their "persistant effort". And when that effort stops all of a sudden you can't be friends with them? Where is your effort to get what you want? |
I am the kind that do not have many friends. I have 4 really close girl friends that I love to bits and do any thing for. I do not have many really close friends who are guys. Come to think about it I only have 1 and the reason we stay friends I must say is thanks to his effort to keep in touch.
Come to think about it I am not sure why I do not have many male friends, I did have close male friends over the years but somehow we always get drift apart. Unlike my girl friends who remain part fo my life for many years. The few that I somehow became close to recently I must say thanks to their persistent effort to keep in touch daily. I guess I am more selective to my male friends than my female friends. May be I need to know if I can really be their friends and there is no ulterior motive behind their friendliness to me.
I do have many many male work colleagues that I work with and socialise with but I do not considered them as my friends. I guess I need to connect to a deeper level to those I consider as friends.