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Old 12-12-2008, 06:52 PM   #20 (permalink)
funchy
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Originally Posted by angies View Post
When I say touchy I mean playful punches, smacks on the hand, taps on the shoulder.
Depending on context and the person, this can be see as flirting.

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When I say mucking around, I mean verbally, we talked about adult topics like how to make love to a woman, what does one night stands mean for a guy etc. the conversation can get a bit of adult nature but always in a group conversation never one on one. One on one sometimes we can be a little bit flirty like I would say "Hi handsome" and he would say things like "Seeing you make it worth while to come to work" etc.
The question is why are you bringing sexually charged topics/behavior into a relationship with a guy who is only a friend? Are you hoping these guy friends will eventually ask you out?

If you flirt with a guy, he may see it as you're interested in him. If you flirt with many guys, a guy watching this may interpret it as you being too loose with your behavior (even if you're not sleeping around). You may be projecting the image of 'sexual availability to most guys' without realizing it.
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