I tend to have guy friends- I think you just have to remind yourself they're not your boyfriend, they're not your best girlfriend, and you can't have those sort of expectations for them. Guys in general tend to like more alone time, and tend to be less regular/persistent about keeping in touch with their other guy friends- but it doesn't mean they don't like you or don't want to be your friend- often they just don't want to feel obligated to spend time, and will pull away the second they feel like the relationship expectations are becoming unsustainable. Particularly when they get obsessed with a new girl- you just have to accept they'll be busy for awhile but eventually will get over it and come back to their friends.
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