Hey, seeker, I'm with you on being attracted to authentic women with a strong sense of self -- but if Northstar likes a certain type of woman, one that better meets society's expectations, that's completely valid. He's just a guy describing what he (dis)likes, not a social dictator barking out universal orders or anything. Some girls aren't gonna trip his trigger.
I mean, I love athletic women -- doesn't mean every girl's gotta go join a soccer team!
Oh yeah, I forgot smoking. Ugh. Pretty much a deal-breaker for me. But, again, if you love smoking, you go right ahead with yo bad self. I just don't want to date you is all. Somebody who likes smokers will be all about you!