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tintin · 12-12-2008, 08:41 AM

emotional cords are connections which form with people you have an emotional give and take with, even animals.anyone who creates a blip in your graph negative or positive the cord forms.
tho we all are universally connected these are more pronounced.esp with our mother.these can infact be viewed as silver threads running from the solar plexus of one to the other.and with mothers it exists even after one of em has left the body.more the traffic on them the thicker they get.
though they form the basis of relationships and the emotional gratification that comes with being attached to another the bad news is that even negative stuff keeps getting exchanged.however that's a part of life..after all we are having a human experience here right.and emotions are a very powerful human experience.
discomfort on continually 'receiving' bad vibes from somebody cud be cos of karma having to be worked out which might have expectation as its root virus.or forgiveness..or wider deeper understanding of who you are and what the other person is representing.
just discomfort is not reason enough to cut cords.infact cord cutting is ideally recommended for connections which are extremely negative like the cord between a rapist and victim.or an ex partner who has found love and theres still feelings being exchanged.letting neither grow
so...what do we do with the thick cables which cause so much trouble?
well we work at purging them.working things out either within yourself or with the other person.cud be forgiving.cud be cutting down on expectations.could be making clear boundaries..depends.
ive seen it being used on a girl who cun get over her ex when she came out the first word she said was...YES! and wrote 'I HAVE WON!' on the board..well she wasn ready to do a cord cutting at all!so it differs from situation to situation.and WHERE you are coming from.the next day she crashed..because what was happenin was that she was grieving and this was a shortcut thru all the pain and getting over.so the cord cut was useless.
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hm.foof that was lengthy! so tell me why d you ask?

12-12-2008, 08:41 AM	#3 (permalink)
tintin Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 288	emotional cords are connections which form with people you have an emotional give and take with, even animals.anyone who creates a blip in your graph negative or positive the cord forms. tho we all are universally connected these are more pronounced.esp with our mother.these can infact be viewed as silver threads running from the solar plexus of one to the other.and with mothers it exists even after one of em has left the body.more the traffic on them the thicker they get. though they form the basis of relationships and the emotional gratification that comes with being attached to another the bad news is that even negative stuff keeps getting exchanged.however that's a part of life..after all we are having a human experience here right.and emotions are a very powerful human experience. discomfort on continually 'receiving' bad vibes from somebody cud be cos of karma having to be worked out which might have expectation as its root virus.or forgiveness..or wider deeper understanding of who you are and what the other person is representing. just discomfort is not reason enough to cut cords.infact cord cutting is ideally recommended for connections which are extremely negative like the cord between a rapist and victim.or an ex partner who has found love and theres still feelings being exchanged.letting neither grow so...what do we do with the thick cables which cause so much trouble? well we work at purging them.working things out either within yourself or with the other person.cud be forgiving.cud be cutting down on expectations.could be making clear boundaries..depends. ive seen it being used on a girl who cun get over her ex when she came out the first word she said was...YES! and wrote 'I HAVE WON!' on the board..well she wasn ready to do a cord cutting at all!so it differs from situation to situation.and WHERE you are coming from.the next day she crashed..because what was happenin was that she was grieving and this was a shortcut thru all the pain and getting over.so the cord cut was useless. .. hm.foof that was lengthy! so tell me why d you ask? Last edited by tintin; 12-12-2008 at 08:44 AM.