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The vast majority of guys do not touch each other unless it's a handshake, high-5, or the very occasional man-hug. When you touch a guy, he immediately starts thinking you are attracted to him, which either engages his animal brain or weirds him out because he sees you as just a friend, or is already involved with someone else.
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So rule number 1. No touching with male friends?
All my male friend know that I am in a relationship. Because we are work coleagues, most of our conversation are work and gym. Occasionally we talk about each other personal life but that is mainly due to my prompting. On the rare occasion when we are out for drinks the conversation can get a bit of adult nature. But we all know where we stand with our friendships. And don't get me wrong I find my male friends attractive, and we do muck around a bit. Note that this is different from flirting. May be that is where I gone wrong. The line is not clear and the guys get confused.