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Originally Posted by pyrogen  I feel like the whole point of having a spouse/full time partner is so you can take sleeping together for granted. . |
I don't think you should take anything for granted from the other person.
He cites good reasons why the two of you don't sleep well together in the same bed. It sounds like sometimes he just can't get by on less-than-idea sleep. Why deny him a basic need such as sleep? It's kind of selfish to force him to lose sleep so you can feel better sleeping. Every other night sounds like a good compromise.
Is he a good guy otherwise? A satisfying relationship ? Then don't let this be a deal-breaker.