I - being a boy - have mostly female friends. I have ooh one proper male friend and three close female friends.
It's not a problem to me, I am attracted to them. I don't think I would be friends with them if I wasn't. However it's not a sexual attraction, it's an attraction to their brains, their humour, quirkiness and general likeability.
We talk about the most lurid and obscene things, we stray into the over friendly many times, but it never damages what we have, it strengthens it.
I know I have at least two of these four friends for life.
I see it as a most natural thing. Our differences are not amplified, they are connected and intertwined to create a friendship group that is quite perfect.
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