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Originally Posted by shakra 
Maybe I have a male dependency issue??
I really want to fix him, but maybe he doesnt wanna be fixed?
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You can't fix somebody who doesn't want to be fixed himself. The same way proud handicapped people refuse help getting groceries to their car, his pride perhaps keeps him from thinking he needs to be fixed.
Maybe if you didn't think of it as "fixing" him, but bettering his life, and present it to him that way, maybe he'll bite. If not, then it's up to you to leave or stay.