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Originally Posted by ArtVandelay  I think you're misreading the first post in this thread. Obviously I don't find being 5 pounds overweight unattractive. I also didn't say I object to "frizzy hair." What I said was "dense, frizzy, scraggly hair" is something I find very unattractive. You picked up on one of those adjectives, but the fact is that all three work in concert; in other words, I object to a specific type of hair, not a girl having some frizz in her hair.
I mean I really don't think you could possibly be understanding what I'm saying, because on the one hand you're saying that a failure to perform basic grooming stuff is a deal-breaker for you (which is essentially what I asked), and then on the other hand saying that I'm "superficial" for believing exactly the same thing  . |
(This thread is supposed to be focused on aesthetic things - that is, physical features, body language, fashion, etc.
This is what you said. Physical features have nothing to do with maintenance. You can be ugly as Quazimodo and have a perfectly shaven face and great skin. You specifically mentioned physical features, fashion, body language....that has nothing to do with frizzy hair. What I am saying is that I don't pay any attention to those unable to take care of their bodies because they are not for me. Having said that, I fell in love with a man who had bad teeth, but tons of personality and I couldn't care less about his teeth. Having bad hygiene is just well bad. It's not a deal-breaker but it's a standard where everything starts for me.