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Originally Posted by SenoritaBonita  Well, skin diseases are rarely attractive on any people. However, that's just basic maintenance. I am Russian and haven't seen so many unmaintained females and males as in Canada in my life. Some women and men have good facial features, yet they choose not to perform basic bodily maintenance such as washing, cleaning, brushing , cutting, etc. You seem to be talking about basic maintenance that absolutely everyone is able to do. When I see someone who simply cannot do that for themselves, I doubt that that person will do anything for me. I think you have to love yourself first and basic maintenance starts there. When it comes to saying that 5 lbs overweight or frizzy hair are deal-breakers, I personally think it's too much. Inability to perform a daily function of taking care of your body is unattractive on everyone. But if your eye brows are imperfect, so what??? :S Is that a deal-breaker? Not for me. |
I think you're misreading the first post in this thread. Obviously I don't find being 5 pounds overweight unattractive. I also didn't say I object to "frizzy hair." What I said was "dense, frizzy, scraggly hair" is something I find very unattractive. You picked up on one of those adjectives, but the fact is that all three work in concert; in other words, I object to a specific type of hair, not a girl having some frizz in her hair.
I mean I really don't think you could possibly be understanding what I'm saying, because on the one hand you're saying that a failure to perform basic grooming stuff is a deal-breaker for you (which is essentially what I asked), and then on the other hand saying that I'm "superficial" for believing exactly the same thing
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