Over the years physical beauty fades. Over time fit bodies go soft and people gain weight. Sometimes the hair thins. But the things that endures is the person inside.
Turn-offs are anyone who is condescending, sexist/racist, the self-described 'ladies man', self-absorbed, liars, users, emotional dependents, drama-queens, in love with being depressed, serious addicts, those in major denial, or cavemen.
Turn-ons are those who are real, honest, confident, down-to-earth, intelligent, polite, sensible, sometimes adventurous, willing to try new things, and are finding their passion in life. Bonus points for taking care of themselves (i.e. good hygiene). Triple bonus points for being in touch with their feelings & sexuality.
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