Be thankful he's gone. The niece/nephew are part of the whole package of "you". Do NOT go meet up with him. He's made his choice. Do not buy the "I miss you" line because it'll just be more months of conflict. It'll make the final break-up that much harder.
Don't blame him. He may not have realized at first what it really meant to be dating someone who already has kids. Just make a clean break and move on.
What you don't need is a guy who isn't totally committed to your adopted kids. It's hard for some guys to accept another's kids as their own. It would be really bad on your kids to always be the unwanted step-kids in his family. Your kids must come first.
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