In no particular order:
- Lack of confidence or a strong sense of self
- Not taking care of themselves (not eating right/exercising, overweight, bad hygeine/grooming etc)
- Too "girly", playing into socially conditioned stereotypes of what women should be and do (reading girly magazines, watching fluff TV, owning 100 pairs of shoes, shopping all the time etc). I guess this could be said for playing into any popular trends or fads, really.
- I'll second the comments about too much makeup - yuck! That kind of thing just screams out phoniness and insecurity to me
- I'll also second the comment about tattoos... I'd prefer none at all - I think this one goes along with playing into trends and fads. You gotta wonder how many people in general (not just girls) would be into tattoos if it wasn't for their relatively recent surge in popularity. Just my personal opinion, I've never really understood it myself!
- Being too clingy/dependent. I'm a very independent guy and like a girl who has her own thing going, can think for herself, is resourceful and doesn't require attention every waking minute outside of work/sleep. To me, a relationship should never be the most important thing you have going on in your life, that's a pretty lame thing to center your life around if you ask me!
Anyways, my .02 worth! Hope that provides some insight.
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