Unattractive, in decreasing order of importance (many of these are personal preference):
- meanness, esp to children or animals -- I saw a stripper friend just laying into her 4yo son over NOTHING, and she instantly went from a "9" to a "4" in my eyes. I, myself, enjoy verbally sparring with a girl, though, if it's done in a fun way.
- hard drug abuse = go away now. I'm okay with weed or alcohol, but too much of that is a turn-off too.
- an unpretty face -- dunno how to make this objective, but physically a pretty face is the most important to me
- overweight -- I can't feel attraction for a girl that's, say, 20-30lbs overweight. I wish I could, as that's very common, but I can't.
- overly slovenly dress -- I'm no fashion snob; some girls can pull off sweatpants + t-shirt really well. But I saw what COULD have been a cute girl wearing dirty pink sweats, a holey t-shirt, and *hot pink crocs* (!!) at a coffee shop and just went... Ugggg, no thanks!
- manly haircuts -- short hair can be cute, but not a "fade" or a boyish cut. (Nathalie Portman is beeeeeYOUtiful, but
I hate this.)
- lack of muscle tone -- I got a thing for athletic girls!
- boobs bigger than a C cup -- yes, you read that right, I prefer small boobs!
- too much makeup, caked on and obvious
- facial hair, yeah please take care of that!
- strong southern accents -- I looooooove European accents, but a dixie chick twang is pretty gross. (although, living down south, I've sorta gotten over this one)
- a lot of my guy friends HAAAATE bad teeth, but it's never much bothered me
Keira is too thin, but honestly I'll take too thin over too fat. (My last gf had a body about like her; it was never an issue between us.)
You can't be all things to all people, though. Be yourself, be your BEST self, and you'll attract people who value those qualities.