I have had custody of my niece/nephew for 8 years (since they were 2 and 3). I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. He has met them, however he now tells me (after knowing me for >1 yr) that he doesn't want our relationship to go to next level bc of the kids. Says he doesn't want to live with them.
I am so heartbroken. This guy talked about marrying me.... told me he would love us to have a baby on the way by next winter and then last night says he just can't "do" the neice/nephew thing.
I respect his right not to want kids around. I didn't even get angry about that at all. What hurts is that i didn't know the kids were an issue for him.
I am so hurt and i am going to miss him! I wish so much that he would have told me this last year........... waiting until i am attached and in love seems so wrong.
He says he wants us to get together this weekend bc " I still love you" "I want to see you" How can he say that, yet dump me at the same time??? I want to see him.... i probably will bc i am so weak and hurt.
IDK.... any words???
Jess