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Originally Posted by seeker5 Heh, you're going the opposite way - saying that those who aren't in a relationship can't contribute effectively? Or that you have to be ok with whatever status you're at? |

no I'm not saying that those who aren't in a relationship cannot contribute, they can.
I'm rather saying that it's better to be ok with the current state of your relationships and your social life to contribute.
If one has the feeling that something is missing in his life, that's not the best place to be in order to contribute.