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Destine4destiny · 12-09-2008, 05:21 PM

That is a very deep question for someone like me because I've never been in love , but I have been infatuated with a lot of people. One time my ex asked me, why do you love me? and I found myself making up reasons, that now when I think about them, do not make sense at all. Do I love myself? Hell to the yeah, but can I replicate that same love to someone else I highly doubt it. I guess it's hard for people to think about loving another human being because our minds get caught up in resenting them for the hurtful things that were said and done that,therefore, we forget to accept them for all their flaws,so our love probably could never form or could never be unconditional.

12-09-2008, 05:21 PM	#2 (permalink)
Destine4destiny Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 199	I've never been in love or... That is a very deep question for someone like me because I've never been in love , but I have been infatuated with a lot of people. One time my ex asked me, why do you love me? and I found myself making up reasons, that now when I think about them, do not make sense at all. Do I love myself? Hell to the yeah, but can I replicate that same love to someone else I highly doubt it. I guess it's hard for people to think about loving another human being because our minds get caught up in resenting them for the hurtful things that were said and done that,therefore, we forget to accept them for all their flaws,so our love probably could never form or could never be unconditional.