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Originally Posted by Pequod  Really?
Most advice here points at this: change your beliefs, change your way of thinking and be open for the results it yields.
What have you done to try this out? |
Well every time somebody says something,i know if i've tried it or not,and i have,i explain why it doesn't work,and if i haven't,i think what it would be like to try that. Well,i can't really go into detail about all the examples cuz most of them were regarding other threads entirely. But about this particular thread about virginity, i still don't believe that just changing your way of thinking is the only way to yield results,it mean it can,but it can't be necessary because there are always exceptions,for example me finding a boyfriend when i was at my most desperate and depressed. But i realized that i focus on the negative too much,and i do play devils advocate too much,i realize that puts up barriers when i'm dealing with people. But like i said,that's only in here,in threads where we are discussing my problems,not normally.