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Originally Posted by SupersecretIdentity  Sure its possible you can get her to cheat/dump her boyfriend/whatever so you can ride off into the sunset together. The question you have to ask yourself is, is that really the kind of person you want to be? There is so much more to life than girls, is it really worth it to do that to yourself? Yeah you win for that moment, but you cause a lot of damage to your conscience doing stuff like that. Not a very convincing argument at your age, I'm sure, but very true. |
Perhaps if you went around trying to steal everyone's girlfriend, then yeah, that would probably be conscious-damaging.
However, it would seem to me that it may be more authentic and honest to let one specific girl you like and that you really connect with, that you like her now, regardless of her relationship status....instead of waiting until she breaks up with the boyfriend to all of a sudden tell her you like her.