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Originally Posted by Radical  I challenge someone to scientifically test out this theory, that all male/female interactions have an undertone of sexuality.
The next time you interact with someone and you think they're flirting or whatever, ask them if they would like to give you oral pleasure?
Then report their responses in this thread.
Obviously this would take balls of steel, so I doubt anyone will take up this challenge. 
I've always wondered this though, what would a woman say if I bluntly asked her to give me oral pleasure? |
Balls of steel? Mine must be ten-ton titanium, then...
Honestly it's not that difficult to say something offensive to a stranger, considering practically nothing bad ever really happens, but on to the main point/s at hand;
There's several HUGE problems with your proposition, because it's mainly all contextual
1] People lie. A woman might actually want to give you head if you ask, but she'll say no out of tact in order to keep herself from looking like a slut either to you (afraid she may scare you off/be unladylike) or to other people around (risk for her social & dating reputation).
2] The fundamental language problem. Since not everyone is equally adept at their native language (particularly american english since our public school systems are so ridiculously f1cking terrible), a lot of people have a hard time describing what they want and why. Even though the proposition of oral sex is not a difficult one, the feelings of attraction that would affect whether someone desires to perform an act are difficult for most people to describe. So if you were to ask someone that question, and they gave an answer, then you asked them WHY they gave you that answer, they probably couldn't tell you.
3] Women are intrinsically indecisive, or rather, they LOVE men to make decisions for them. Your response rate from women will dramatically increase if you tell them to do something than if you ask permission. Does it make any sense? Not unless you understand the dynamics. Does it fly in the face of feminism? Yeah. Does it work? YEAH. I'm not saying be a dick, I'm saying that if you tell a women "kiss me" (and do it in the right way), she'll be more responsive than if you ask. Even if she's attracted to you, she still might say no if you ask. But if you don't give any options and just say "touch me/kiss me/hug me/go down on me" and do it in an interesting way, an affirmative result is far more likely.
4] There's more to any interaction than the words being used. Two different guys can approach the same girl at different times with the same proposition, asking the question you posed, and get completely different results.
So even if everyone else in this thread did experiment with your question of asking a woman for oral sex and the response was "no" (like you anticipate), I could find someone (including but not limited to myself) who could find a way to make that question work on almost any girl (not prostitutes of course, by the way, because that would grok the experiment).
So the environmental, contextual, and situational variables determine the answer that a person will give to any given question.
Social interactions are not binary, and though predictable if you know what to look for, they are still fully alive and dynamic. You can ask the same question to the same person and get different answers depending on so many things.
Besides, if you're really good with women, if you just radiate confidence like a shining sun, you can get a woman to say yes to damn near anything because she'll do anything just to be in your presence. Really.