jsot, I agree with SupersecretIdentity's sentiments about not waiting around for a girl. What you're doing is making her an idol - it's not good for her and it's not good for you.
Young brother, you're SIXTEEN! You've got a whole life ahead of you to figure out who you are and what you want to do with your life. If you're infatuated with a girl and putting your life on hold to wait until she's available, you're not ready for a girlfriend.
Take this season of your life to figure out exactly who you are and what your passions are. Pursue those things in school and outside of school that interest and excite you - may it be math, or biology, or marching band, or football, or volunteer work, or DECA (whoa, I can't believe this just came to me
), or computer club, or religion/spirituality, or working on cars.
When you've figured out your passions, values, and identity and can share these things with people with an open heart, then the perfect girl for you will come into your life. This may not occur in high school; it may be in college, or it may be after you've started your career.
So my advice to you is give it time and keep developing yourself. jsot, I want to suggest a book to you that's near and dear to my heart. It's called
Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul by John Eldredge. It's wisdom that I gained from immensely when I needed it and I believe it should be essential reading for any young man who's trying to figure out his soul and identity. I'd encourage you to obtain a copy and read it.
Best,
Steve