You have just pointed out that you are full of junk and you take the lala approach to reality, so you can't understand anything that is not based on lala.
You choose your choice of approach to understanding. If it doesn't taste well, just spit it out.
What you have just did was that you eat it and have a bad stomachache and you put the blame on the person who cook it and not take the responsibility that you have the option not to eat in the first place.
I mentioned, take it if it helps. If not, I am not forcing it on you. If you want to help me on my writing, thanks but no thanks, this is my style. Might not suite you, but there will be others who will find it helpful one way or another.
There is no one way. Find an approach that you can digest comfortably. Again, don't like, move on.
If all deliverer is to conform their style to what you prefer, another religion would result similar to those who impress theirs on others as the only truth. You introduce the whole elephant by the tail first, I introduce by the trunk first; capeesh, we are introducing the whole elephant anyway just that each start from different parts initially, due to the diverse and infinite range of ideas.
