The first step is to not judge her for it. If you judge her for it she will pick up on it and pull back and probably resent you.
It's vanity but that's not a bad thing. Next time she is around ask her to come work out with you. Don't ask her though, just lead her. "I'm going to work out at four, come with me". She comes and works out. Do this enough times and the problem is solved.
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