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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  I don't feel like i'm obsessing though. Just because a lot of my posts deal with that issue doesn't mean i am sitting around every minute i'm awake worried sick that i'll never find a boyfriend. While i am posting in here,i am also listening to music,chatting with a friend about music,and learning more about Site Build It so i can build my own website about music. Before I came online i was with a friend and her kids at a monster truck show having a good old time. Before that i was playing piano. I didn't even think about my lack of a boyfriend until i just typed the words right now. |
Yes, you're a wonderfully well rounded person. There's no need to defend yourself like this all the time. I already know you're a good person and I'm not trying to fight you...
I'm trying to help!
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And i used to be really bad with wanting a boyfriend,i used to be depressed over it quite often,but that's when i DID finally get a boyfriend. So if it only happens when you aren't worried about it,how did i get one then?
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Life is not an exact science, dear. It's not as easy as 1 + 1 = 3!
It's also not about who can prove who wrong. There is no right or wrong here. Nothing you say will ever prove to me that the world is like you see it, because I see it differently. Likewise, I cannot prove with my words to you just how differently the world is to me. Neither of us is ever going to see the world as the other does... all we can do here is
learn from each other's perspective.
I can tell you endlessly that looking at things differently will bring you new insights and experiences, but the telling that is all I can do. You have to do the looking all by yourself (if you choose to).