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Originally Posted by JimOfferman  I know you do. I'm trying to explain to you that your world is not going to change until you realize that this feeling is off base. Only when you stop obsessing about everything you don't want (that includes guys you like but who aren't interested in you), are you going to find what you do want. |
I don't feel like i'm obsessing though. Just because a lot of my posts deal with that issue doesn't mean i am sitting around every minute i'm awake worried sick that i'll never find a boyfriend. While i am posting in here,i am also listening to music,chatting with a friend about music,and learning more about Site Build It so i can build my own website about music. Before I came online i was with a friend and her kids at a monster truck show having a good old time. Before that i was playing piano. I didn't even think about my lack of a boyfriend until i just typed the words right now.
And i used to be really bad with wanting a boyfriend,i used to be depressed over it quite often,but that's when i DID finally get a boyfriend. So if it only happens when you aren't worried about it,how did i get one then?