Rockchick
People can be divided in two groups: matchers and mismatchers. Matchers have the impuls to see what is the same, mismatchers have the impuls to see what is different.
You are an example of the perfect mismatcher. Whatever someone will say to you, you'll always find the little detail that isn't correct,that is different. If I'm attracted to you, you will be repulsed by me. If I'm repulsed by you, you will be attracted to me. You will always think about what is NOT possible instead of what is possible. And when it comes to dating, you will always expect to find hurdles, problems and impossibilities.
I'll tell you, as long as you keep creating these demons in your mind, you will keep meeting them in your reality.
The only way out of this is to consciously change the way you think.
Of course you won't take this advise because true to form, you will disagree with me