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Originally Posted by striving4peace  No, I'm not saying it's the reason the situation arises: I'm not going to have one sexual partner for life *because* that way I ensure she is the best.
The situation arises because I might be marrying the virgin i am falling in love with - and thus end up having only one monogamous relationship in my life.
the 'she'll be the best you ever had' is being told to me in answer to my query to 'wouldn't it have been optimum to have at least slept around a bit'
but i guess you are answering that with 'i think there is nothing wrong with having only one sexual partner'. And in any case, I'm willing to do anything in my power (and so is my partner from what I'm seeing so far) to have a fantastic sex life too - to make it work. |
It really does depend on yourself. If you know that you will always be curious how it would be with other women, it can be a problem. If you take things as they come and appreciate what is present, there is no need to 'sleep around a bit'.
Is that an answer to your question?