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Originally Posted by evevera  University isn't really a . (Igreat place to meet boyfriends/girlfriends. Because if you break up, you're going to have to stand seeing them around the place all the time. |
That is no different than meeting people in high school or at a job,either way you have to be around them for 8 hours a day (unless you quit or drop out,whatever the case may be). But i think those places are the best places to meet people to date because you get to know them as people,and its almost inevitable that it is going to happen with somebody.
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You just need to approach the ones you want to date from a NON-friend angle. Don't be the I-only-see-him-as-a-friend guy. YOu can get out of that by flirting, building sexual tension in conversations and all that other jazz.
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If someone gave this advice to a guy that liked me,it would NOT work. I don't think it is so black and white. Not everyone falls in love with people who come on strong flirting up a storm right off the bat. I see that as desperate and i would think "geez does he do that with every girl he meets?!" The whole friend-trap thing,for me anyway,it doesnt matter if a guy flirts with me or not,if i am attracted to him,i will not just think of him as a friend. And flirting means so much more when it is done by somebody that i feel close to already.
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Most guys don't do this. If they get creeped out and tell you to stop cos they have a boyfriend, that's fine, you won't get them anyway no matter how much you flirt with them. But that doesn't mean you have to stop, just look at it as a part of your personality. They will enjoy the attention.
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Are you telling him to flirt with girls who are taken even if they tell him to stop? I read to reread this,i can't beleive thats what you meant! I think that is extremely disrespectful to the guy and his girlfriend. That sounds like a sure way to get a fist in the mouth.