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Originally Posted by striving4peace  I've been thinking (and sometimes worrying) about the sexual compatibility part. There's no solid information on it available , most of what I find is sketchy. |
Anatomy is not an issue. Wheather one is big- or small size etc doesn't matter, it can only mean that certain positions are more enjoyable than others. Just have fun finding it out
Arousal for women is mostly mentally driven and depends also on her mood and emotional openess.
The sexual temperament of both of you and attitude toward sex is what decides compatibility.
I know of only one source wich adresses this issue, the book
Constructing the Sexual Crucible by
David Schnarch. It is a book for therapists, but really good and looks at a broader perspective than just sex. Schnarch describes 3 styles of lovemaking: sexual trance, partner engament and role enactment.