Ok, I think (and hope) the advice is well founded and as close to the unbiased truth as possible.
I've been thinking (and sometimes worrying) about the sexual compatibility part. There's no solid information on it available , most of what I find is sketchy. Masters and Johnsons don't even mention it. The kamasutra (the unabridged version) tells about the 3 different types of male and female anatomy each, and which is optimum - but physical / mechanical problems I've heard can be fixed or circumvented these days. They dont talk about the other things I hear in a majority about compatibility such as style, frequency, etc. But then I have a very open and trusting relationship (so far in the early stages) and I'm trying to not do what rochchick fears of most men - bring up sex too early in the picture. I want to ease the topic in and as something we need to discuss in a framework of trust, openness and communicating needs in a relationship.
The reason I doubt the advice is because I've heard a lot of people advise that it's almost a pre-requisite to sleep around at least a little and know what you're like sexually and then settling with someone who you're sexually compatible with. I haven't had the first part, and now am wondering about how i'll manage the second in my situation. The advice I've been given doesn't seem to tally with that.
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