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I am not going to suddenly find someone attractive who is the complete opposite of what i like (which would be 90% of guys then). I also am not going to change my morals (the whole waiting thing,needing to be ready,etc.)
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You have a lot of rules for how a relationship is suppose to be for you. When you have so many rules, you're only shooting yourself in the foot. You'll never get it perfectly the way you want it. True love and the "right one" only shows up when you're open and willing to let them in. Those rules are block them from coming in, that's why you're single.
You say you can't change. Bull. You don't want to change and you don't want to have a boyfriend. If you did, you would have one right now. Open yourself to love, drop these stupid rules about how they should look. Looks don't last, when you're both 70, you're going to look terrible anyway. It's whats inside the person that you should be focusing on. (LOoks also change!)
I would really like you for once to step outside your comfort zone and really open up to some guys you never would have before. Don't write them off after a date or two just because you didn't "feel it" with them physically. If their personality fits yours, keep dating them and see what develops. Attraction can develop overtime, and your one bad experience in this case is just one bad experience.
It's a numbers game as well at the end of the day. Open yourself up to as many as you can, date as many as you can and then evaluate which one you have the best connection with.
I see a lot of pretty women with ugly guys, but they're treated like gold and very happy. I also see a lot of women with hot guys and they end up being cheated on and abused to no end. Whats the point? Just so you have someone hot to show off when you walk down the street?