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Originally Posted by Pequod  Yes, that's true so what is the problem?
Men get their validation mainly from sex
Women get their validation mainly from love and connection.
So if a man sees a woman, he sees her first as a sexual being, and secondly as a social being.
If a woman sees a man, she will first see him as a social being and only later as a sexual being.
That's why they say:"A man loves the woman he sleeps with, and a woman sleeps with the man she loves"
It's just different biological wiring. In the end, for a good relationship man and woman need to click both in sexuality and in love and connection. There is just a difference in being, but no need see it as problematic. |
Where did you hear this!? This couldn't be farther from the truth,in my experience. When men have sex with a woman before anything else has developed,what do they do? They NEVER CALL BACK! That's why they always say women should never sleep with a man so quickly because she is allowing herself to be used for sex. If a man knows a woman will put out quickly,then she becomes either a **** buddy or a one night stand. I've never heard of a man falling in love with a woman after having sex with her on the first date. In fact i've never even heard of a man dating a woman with a relationship in mind,after having sex immediately. When you show someone what you want,that's how they're going to treat you. So i am not going to show men that i'm an easy screw buddy,cuz that's all i'd be to them.