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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  Yeah i understand this,but like you said,it's not that men don't have feelings,but visual stuff comes first. |
Yes, that's true so what is the problem?
Men get their validation mainly from sex
Women get their validation mainly from love and connection.
So if a man sees a woman, he sees her first as a sexual being, and secondly as a social being.
If a woman sees a man, she will first see him as a social being and only later as a sexual being.
That's why they say:"A man loves the woman he sleeps with, and a woman sleeps with the man she loves"
It's just different biological wiring. In the end, for a good relationship man and woman need to click both in sexuality and in love and connection. There is just a difference in being, but no need see it as problematic.