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Originally Posted by JimOfferman  I'd say that this forum is pretty crowded with that kind of men you seek. Could it, perhaps, be that you're just not looking in the right places? |
Well how can i date any men in here,we're spread out across the whole world! And i dont like internet dating,its in it's own world of wierdness. I hate meeting people through the internet now.
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Also, thinking about sex is only natural. We all do it - even you!
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I am not saying i dont think about it,i think about it A LOT,daily...but there is a difference between someone who wants sex and someone who wants only sex.
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Who cares if the guy thinks about it before the date? Shouldn't his sexual attraction to you be a good sign? I personally don't go on (romantic) dates when there isn't such an attraction, 'cause I know we'll just end up being friends. I cannot manufacture attraction when it is not there, even though I would like to some times...
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I agree with you 100% about needing sexual attraction,but what makes A WORLD of difference is how he handles himself in the beginning. I can't want a guy if he isn't giving me any time to want him. If someone is throwing themselves at me before i even have time to blink my eyes,i am driven away! If you want something to come to you,dont chase after it,it'll only run away! I dont want a desperate guy,and i dont want a guy who cant even take the time to get to know me first. I dont want a guy who puts sex before personality. Also i cant truly like someone (honest feelings,love,etc) if i dont know him well enough first.
I have to get to know his personality first and that takes months. Only then can i truly WANT to be with him (physically too).