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Originally Posted by striving4peace  Get to know more men from different sources  |
LOL are you saying i dont know any other men? I've known hundreds of them! Thats why i'm saying this,because out of that huge number of men i've known,the only 2 i can think of who arent obsessed with sex are my family members and i can only say that because i dont talk to them about sex obviously LOL
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I've known some who are like the men you're talking about.
But then I've known well rounded individuals too. They care about sex,
but also about a lot of other things.
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Well i've known well rounded individuals too,but sooner or later the sex side of them always comes out too.
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You say you're not making a blanket statement but your question seems to be based on an assumption that men 'don't care about anything other than sex' when in fact that's what I'm trying to correct:
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Well i am trying to beleive men care about other things and i'm sure they do but i just don't get where they are then LOL Because the ones i meet are all about sex. Even when i meet some who seem more balanced,then i find out otherwise.
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I know you are struggling with what to do with a gender which you perceive to be a collective of mindless animals without control but with the only objective of getting into the pants of an opposite gender - and are wondering how you will find someone when you are quite different from what they're looking for. Here's my suggestion - learn to accept that almost all guys (esp young ones) will have a powerful sex drive - but try and find the ones that have *more* passions than just that.
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Oh,well,believe me,i AM trying! I did meet a guy who did love one thing more than sex...his car!
Ugh what's worse! Where are the guys who value friendship with a woman before impatiently jumping ahead to the sex part? (which then becomes the ONLY part). Where are the guys who want to get to know a girls personality BEFORE deciding if he wants to date her? Or my personal "favorite",where are the guys who can talk to you on the internet without asking "got a pic?" first!? ARRGGH i swear if i get asked that one more time i'm gonna send them a close up picture of my rear end!!
