I just want to challenge you a little bit. What is the purpose of approaching 200 women a day? Do you really care about the women and see them as human beings, or are they just your experiment to see if you can overcome your fear?
You are afraid because you have an agenda. What do you want to get from them? What outcome or reaction do you want to get? What would happen if you don't get it?
It seems to me like the whole idea of 'approach anxiety' is looked as if it was a disease to be eliminated. You have to 'fix' that, otherwise you are doomed. It means that you are a sore loser, and always have to be super suave and 'confident' to get the girl. Why bother with all these complicated nonsense and just switch to be truly authentic.
I wonder how your parents and my parents did it. I am pretty sure they did not read up on seduction material. Most of the seduction companies out there will tell you that it's OK to seek advice, and that guys don't usually do it because of their ego and because they think it's a sign of weakness. Well, you are really just learning to overcome your insecurities by depending on your 'success' or validation you get from women. Interesting.
Do you think that women can add or take anything from your being? If your sense of self was built on solid ground, then what is the need to get validation from women? This is your cure for approach anxiety. It is like trying to cure a tumor with painkillers (approaching to desensitize yourself) as opposed to removing it altogether. The true solution for this is not outside of yourself.
Regards,
Diego
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