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Originally Posted by bd90  Questions for the men:
Do you have a fear of approaching women? And how do you overcome it? Have you had any positive experiences? |
I got 7 numbers walking down Hollywood Blvd on Sunday and 1 more from a GORGEOUS woman at a coffee shop afterwards. My friends and I were just walking up to any good looking girls walking by and talking to them.
Was I nervous at first? Maybe slightly. After the 1st or 2nd girl I was no longer nervous at all. In fact I was now excited to do it. I was having fun with it and we were doing the most OUTLANDISH stuff. Quite a few of the women were open to coming back to our hotel room that night as it was right on the street.
All you do is this; relax and practice. Have fun with it. It's for your good. I love women and talking to them is a fun enjoyable experience. Just be yourself. That's the best "game" you can do. Develop a style that works for you. Have fun with it. Don't take it so seriously if one says no. There are a million different reasons she could have said no; in a hurry, friends are with so she doesn't want to appear slutty, in a relationship, parents are with her, etc.... If she says no, so what? You didn't lose anything as you didn't have her to begin with. Just move on to the next. Eventually if not immediately you will find one that will say yes.
One girl I spoke to was quite rude. I saw her a bit later and went up to her again, this time she was COMPLETELY friendly. She just misinterpreted what I had said to the first time. So keep trying. It's fun.
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Once I realized that I had something to offer (looks, charm, jokes, creativity, brains, etc) it became a lot easier to approach women and get dates.
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Same with me. Once I realized I had SO much going for me it has become a piece of cake. In fact I usually get picked up by women. Every day I am learning more and more about just how much I have to offer.