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Originally Posted by spookie149  If it were me, I'd stop talking to him. It's clear he's just using you to pump information about Susan. Even if you don't like the way she's been treating him, this guy is still using you. Do you two hang out at all together? Go for dinner, watch a movie, etc? Or do you just chat on facebook where the conversation eventually gets turned to Susan? If it's the latter, he is using you. Maybe you don't want to be mean and tell him to leave you alone, but he is also being rude by using you. |
Over the past 1.5 years, he's mentioned several times that he wants to get together to hang out.At the time, I wanted nothing to do with him because of the whole stalker thing. He mentioned again last night, suggesting that we meet up over winter break. We haven't hung out before, mainly due to my reservations in doing so. The conversations never mentioned Susan until last night.
I feel like a jerk pushing people away like that. It's not very often that people actively pursue my company. I think he's sincere in his desire to befriend me, but I also think he has an ulterior motive.