If I saw a guy ask for other women first to go for coffee before finally asking me yes I would be offended! In fact a few months ago at a nightclub a guy hit on my three friends in turn before trying it on with me. To say he got short shrift is an understatment!
However, I do remember many years ago being in a pub with a female friend for a drink and as we left a guy chased me out the pub and said something like 'I just have to have your phone number!' I said no, because I already had a boyfriend, but wow was I flattered. I mean that was about 18 years ago and I still remember it!
I think the trick is to make the women you are asking feel special and not that you are making up the numbers!
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