A man has two primary drives in early adulthood: one toward power, success, and accomplishment; the other toward love, companionship, and sex. To go out there to learn how to meet girls was then, to admit that I was only half a man.- Neil Strauss.
I really like this quote. But getting to the point. While sex doesn't change you in any way or another, companionship does. So your problem here is not sex, but rather your fear of getting hurt by seeking companionship. I've had a fair share (I really dont mean to brag) and I tell you, it hasn't made any greater than I was before. I still feel alone at times. I still seek love. So really, be clear about what your issue is, because I'm almost sure, it is not the issue of virginity, but rather companionship.
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