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marinik · 11-30-2008, 07:59 AM

OK now this is a tough one.
First - you can become the person your partner really needs. Or in other words the best wife you can be for him. If the whole relationship hasn't deteriorated. It worked for me big time. After years of struggling to change him I became the best wife for him and things changed for the good so drastically that I sill can't believe it. It is IM you resonate the best fro you and this is what you get.

Second - on the other hand I ended a relationship that was warm and beautiful and wonderful because of one situation that built up in my head too such magnitude that it started suffocating me. The avalanche of my thoughts around one clumsy sentence was unbelievable! It started obsessing me and no method, trick or skill helped. So I ended it. It felt so much better that I can't even start to explain. A dear friend wrote something to me the day I called it quits.

She wrote:
"Just watched another DVD of Abraham, she talked about relationships and how being loved by someone, especially in a romantic type of relationship, makes us feel so much closer to who we really are and being looked at with love etc aligns us with this highest vibration of source. That's why we want this to continue.... But we can find the same vibration on our own - it's just so much easier when someone gives it to us.

Abraham also said that when relationships end it is usually because the desire for something different has already created this new fantastic relationship for both people involved. We just need to allow it!

I guess being in a state of 'darkness' is not helping you with allowing anything better into your life, neither a better relationship nor your own improved alignment with your higher self (source)."

11-30-2008, 07:59 AM	#2 (permalink)
marinik Legendary Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Where Living and Loving and Laughing are written into the Constitution Posts: 14,240	OK now this is a tough one. First - you can become the person your partner really needs. Or in other words the best wife you can be for him. If the whole relationship hasn't deteriorated. It worked for me big time. After years of struggling to change him I became the best wife for him and things changed for the good so drastically that I sill can't believe it. It is IM you resonate the best fro you and this is what you get. Second - on the other hand I ended a relationship that was warm and beautiful and wonderful because of one situation that built up in my head too such magnitude that it started suffocating me. The avalanche of my thoughts around one clumsy sentence was unbelievable! It started obsessing me and no method, trick or skill helped. So I ended it. It felt so much better that I can't even start to explain. A dear friend wrote something to me the day I called it quits. She wrote: "Just watched another DVD of Abraham, she talked about relationships and how being loved by someone, especially in a romantic type of relationship, makes us feel so much closer to who we really are and being looked at with love etc aligns us with this highest vibration of source. That's why we want this to continue.... But we can find the same vibration on our own - it's just so much easier when someone gives it to us. Abraham also said that when relationships end it is usually because the desire for something different has already created this new fantastic relationship for both people involved. We just need to allow it! I guess being in a state of 'darkness' is not helping you with allowing anything better into your life, neither a better relationship nor your own improved alignment with your higher self (source)." Last edited by marinik; 11-30-2008 at 08:46 AM.