Hi Throwback,
I think girls should have a little patience as you're only 20!
I imagine it must be difficult for young guys because there is this stereotype of girls being attracted to older "provider" types. However, there are always exceptions. My sister is a career woman in her 30s and she got into a relationship with a 25 yr old student. She was the only one earning money early in their relationship, and she even supported him through college. She did this because she a) loves him (kinda important
) and b) she believes in him, his future goals and wants to help him reach them. They are now happily married, he graduated and got a good job and they look set for a great future together.
When they said their marriage vows, they each promised to support each other through good times and bad times, that's what real relationships are about IMO, seeing the bigger picture of your lives together
Good luck!