Hey there,
For me, it's not about having a guy spend money on me, but there is a fear that he will become a drain on me if he isn't making any money and I am. For instance, I like to go out and do things, and I am happy to pay for myself, but it would be quite a drain if I had to pay for my boyfriend every time as well. Plus to me it's a warning sign that he doesn't have ambition or doesn't have his act together. Especially if the guy is over 25 years old and doesn't have a steady pay check, it's really not a desirable quality. Also, since I make sure to always have my money, house, and transportation taken care of, it's almost like my values seem to clash with someone who views those things as unimportant.
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