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borisg · 12-30-2006, 06:14 AM

Sorry to hear about your heartbreak. But be thankful. Thankful that you found out now that she is not the person for you. It is obvious she has been having an affair with your boss. You need to be strong enough to admit this to yourself. Forget about confronting her, or your boss. The only person involved in this problem is YOU!! It is your problem that you continued to see a person that admited to YOU that she was very attracted to YOUR boss. When I was going through heartbreak there were several articles by S. Pavlina that helped me out...mostly I needed to put things in perspective...I did.. I think you need to start seeing your pain from different perspectives.. there is nothing for you to fix or make right here. come on now man...stop wasting time like I did.... see now what took me months to see.... accept it now, forgive in time, forget never, and learn from this...because it is only a lesson..

12-30-2006, 06:14 AM	#59 (permalink)
borisg Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 151	Hi Sorry to hear about your heartbreak. But be thankful. Thankful that you found out now that she is not the person for you. It is obvious she has been having an affair with your boss. You need to be strong enough to admit this to yourself. Forget about confronting her, or your boss. The only person involved in this problem is YOU!! It is your problem that you continued to see a person that admited to YOU that she was very attracted to YOUR boss. When I was going through heartbreak there were several articles by S. Pavlina that helped me out...mostly I needed to put things in perspective...I did.. I think you need to start seeing your pain from different perspectives.. there is nothing for you to fix or make right here. come on now man...stop wasting time like I did.... see now what took me months to see.... accept it now, forgive in time, forget never, and learn from this...because it is only a lesson..