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Old 12-30-2006, 03:42 AM   #58 (permalink)
StevenA
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Originally Posted by Cron View Post
That is the take home lesson.

Women want strength. That doesn't necessarily mean muscles, money, or power. Women can see a multitude of qualities as strength. Once she sees that she doesn't have to respect you consciously or not, you will look weak to her, you will cease to be attractive to her and she will leave.
Wow. This just helped me out immensely. I'm 19 and have been in a relationship for almost 3 years and my girlfriend has been becoming more and more condescending and unsupportive towards me as I became more and more bottled up with resentment. I read your post this morning and it just kind of clicked in my head an hour or so ago and I immediately called her to lay out some boundaries and told my girlfriend that her reactions have been unacceptable. She cried and said sorry and I almost relented, but I just repeated myself again, told her she could call me later if she wanted to discuss anything else, and hung up.

I feel great. I feel strong. Thanks, Cron! (Rhyme was not intended )
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